tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9113839210733169207.post6426136999429467504..comments2023-06-25T01:21:34.577-07:00Comments on cakes and bunting: the important stuffclairehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11138885415919892174noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9113839210733169207.post-3555995562084253462010-04-09T18:01:49.002-07:002010-04-09T18:01:49.002-07:00Hangon hangon - I said there was nothing wrong wit...Hangon hangon - I said there was nothing wrong with anything in that list! I love blue and had contemplated getting married in a blue dress until bf expressed his dislike of the idea. It was just a colour I picked as an example with no meaning behind it. There is nothing wrong with having a colour scheme or not having one. There is no right way! And the blue dress thing completely supports your second point - it's both of you getting married and both of you have to decide what you want and what matters to you.clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488607759792842678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9113839210733169207.post-87540934559429247822010-04-09T15:08:22.047-07:002010-04-09T15:08:22.047-07:00Oi what is wrong with blue? (other than the fact t...Oi what is wrong with blue? (other than the fact that there are very few blue flowers and I didn't realise that automatically and until the silk for the bridesmaid dresses was chosen).<br />I don't think I ever really dreamed about my wedding as a child as I had no idea what the groom was going to be like and I don't think you can really plan a wedding until you have a groom or how does it reflect you both?Spare Thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171269015090983067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9113839210733169207.post-29300601240428349842010-04-09T09:25:17.773-07:002010-04-09T09:25:17.773-07:00Completely right. I must add - I'm not judging...Completely right. I must add - I'm not judging people who have colour schemes or want to get married in a posh hotel or in a golf club. It's just not me. Different strokes for different folks. Different things that matter. I don't get offended when people tell me that they like that sort of place and hate the thought of getting married on a farm (with real farm animals running about) - you do what feels right, whatever that is. But that's what the blogs (or at least this blog) are here for I guess! No judging, just opinions...<br /><br />I struggle to colour-coordinate my own clothing most mornings, so an entire wedding would quite possibly be beyond me. I like being outdoors and I like fresh air and I don't mind rain. So that's what we're gonna do. If you like cities and not getting muddy, that's cool too. If you like the 1960s or the colour blue and want that in a wedding then that's your bag. There is no right way, right?clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488607759792842678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9113839210733169207.post-19136371614703915512010-04-09T09:08:50.174-07:002010-04-09T09:08:50.174-07:00You are so right, once the few really important th...You are so right, once the few really important things are tied down and agreed, everything else seems to fall into place and you don't mind compromising quite so much. <br /><br />I also completely agree on the conference centre type venue (I've avoided writing about my venue rules for fear of offending people!) - one thing that was hugely important to us was that the wedding wasn't one of many happening on the same weekend. I would hate to feel like we were just part of a wedding conveyor belt.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com