Tuesday, 12 January 2010

how i didn't expect to feel

I really didn't think things would change much after getting engaged.

We'd done, I thought, the big discussions about how we felt way, way before bf changed his mind and decided he'd like to do this after all. We knew how we felt about each other and about all the big issues. And I had definitely sorted out how I felt about weddings and marriage (or marriage and weddings, if you will).

Funny that. I got that completely wrong. I think this isn't the first time this will happen between now and actually getting the ring #2**.

Right now, everything I read seems to contain a reflection on something important.

(**Actually, it happened when I got ring number one, but that's another post.)

1 comment:

  1. I know, I had no idea I would feel so different. Nauseating and unfeminist, I know, but it does feel so much lovelier to have a ring on my finger.